The Skills
A Unique Opportunity for Men ready to find love
This program is designed to help you bridge the gap between where are you in your love life now and finding forever love. With a deep understanding of the psychology of modern courtship and the essential skills needed to build a lasting relationship, together we will focus on results-driven activities so you have more opportunities to attract, date, and create a relationship built to last a lifetime.
This program is designed for the single who is ready to transform his intimate relationships, show up with more confidence knowing you will attract your "equal", and implement the use of traditional courtship techniques to impress, intrigue, and captivate your ideal partner's attention. One of the most important discoveries you’ll make is that your most powerful tool for successful dating is your own mindset.
You’ll also receive expert guidance to help facilitate a strategic revamp of your online dating profile as well as the creation of a more impressive online presence. You’ll discover the insider secrets I have learned from working with hundreds of women and men so you can create an interesting and diverse visual selection of photos for online dating profiles as well as create compelling language in the profile bio sections to attract the type of ideal partner, an "equal", that you desire to share experiences with, could envision falling in love with, and foresee the potential to create a true partnership with.
the key skills: communication, Deep connection, Intimacy & Modern courtship
With a degree in Psychology, a decade of practicing law, and specialized training on body language interpretations, I have developed an expertise in understanding communication and have studied relationship dynamics in depth for the over 20 years. It is critical that you have the ability to use skillful and strategic communication to create the connection you deeply desire with an ideal partner you respect as your "equal". The ability to read body language and understand non-verbal flirting cues are also essential elements of having successful social interactions with attractive singles.
Because communication and connection are the keys to creating the foundation of a lasting relationship, my clients receive specific coaching on how to communicate online, via text, in person, and by phone to create a much deeper connection regardless of whether it was made virtually or in real life. How often to communicate, what to say to convey interest, reinvigorating conversation, what not to say, how to ask essential questions, planning a date, and so many other communication questions arise in the beginning of a relationship.
Here's the truth... How you handle the communication in the early days beginning from the first conversation, the follow-up from the first date, or how well you maintained contact will have an impact on whether you secure a second date and whether your ideal partner remains interested in you. Skillful communication has the ability to easily strengthen and deepen the connection created as well as facilitate the beginning of a relationship.
Understanding the power of communication to create "true connection" is the key to moving you closer to your relationship goals.
In keeping with creating a strong foundation for a relationship, I teach my clients how to use traditional, time-tested, courtship skills in the modern digital era of dating to help them stand out and get noticed! Understanding the psychology of courtship is essential to dating in a radically different way. By actually insisting on "real" dates and valuing date planning skills, you will naturally stand out in the casualness of today's dating culture. This theory isn't new. In fact, men and women have been implementing highly respected methods of courtship that have been used successfully for generations to create strong and lasting life-long partnerships. It's simply a matter of taking a traditional theory and applying it in the modern day, which is incredibly effective when implemented!
Coaching Methods
When I work with clients, I hold the space for them to reach their relationship goals by guiding them to open themselves up to the inner mindset work together so we create the foundation necessary within the client for relationship success. This seems simple enough yet our inner beliefs can show up in relationships in ways that we would have never anticipated. Many singles share feelings of fear based on past experiences, including fears of being abandoned, being heartbroken, and being betrayed. In addition, singles often share negative beliefs that they have adopted about themselves, including whether attractive enough, whether successful enough, how other's perceive them, whether they feel worthy of love, whether they can handle a relationship, whether they have enough money, etc. and the list could go on and on for days.
A successful dating mindset is the most powerful tool you have!
And, you have the ability to transform your mindset for to achieve radically different results. The process of preparing yourself for successful dating involves gaining clarity on the type of ideal partner you would like to attract, clearing out the blocks and baggage that keep you stuck and stop habitually attracting the wrong kind of man or woman, and embracing a new positive outlook on finding love simply by shifting your mindset, practicing forgiveness, and loving more while fearing less. This is all part of mastering the dating mindset for success.
Mindset
The Mindset: Mastering Your Belief System To Create Success
As a dating expert for singles, there are some very practical steps, strategies, and formulas I can offer to my clients to help them attract better matches online, communicate in a more clear and concise way, broaden their social network, and implement traditional courtship principles as a way of showing respect and creating a strong foundation for an lasting relationship. This is the easy part and the one every turns to first. It's human nature. I know the importance and necessity of creating an impressive online profile and presence and let's face it, it's necessary if you want to be seen for who you are by standing out among the chaos of online dating. In fact, I help my clients with these very practical action steps as part of most of my coaching programs but to really attract an ideal partner, the deep inner work is about having a dating mindset for success knowing and believing you have the ability to find the love and create the relationship you deeply desire.
Learn how to master the dating mindset for relationship success by preparing yourself for LOVE.
Let me share an example... opening yourself up to sign up for a online dating site is not the equivalent of opening yourself up to love again. Why? Let me explain. Because opening yourself up to love again is a declaration that you are ready for a relationship which will require you to trust again, be willing to forgive, embrace transparency and vulnerability, and live your authentic truth about your feelings, desires, and dreams. Sure, we could put a bandage on the wound and write a stellar online profile BUT that would not be the same as forgiving an ex, being open to attract a lasting love into your life, trusting someone new, believing you are totally worthy of the amazing partner you have attracted, or allowing yourself to be authentic and vulnerable.
With over five years of love, intimacy, and relationship coaching and training, my globally recognized coaching methods are designed to help you bridge the gap between where are you in your love life now and finding forever love. With a deep understanding of the psychology of modern courtship and the essential skills needed to build a lasting relationship, together we will focus on results-driven activities so you have more opportunities to attract, date, and create a relationship built to last a lifetime.
This program is designed for the single who is ready to transform his intimate relationships, show up with more confidence knowing you will attract your "equal", and implement the use of traditional courtship techniques to impress, intrigue, and captivate your ideal partner's attention. This program also includes online dating coaching and how to create a successful online profile using my signature strategy.
The goal of this program is to help you refine your online dating profile, enhance your in-person presentation, and enrich your intimate relationships with an understanding of the psychology of courtship and how to use this knowledge to attract a respected "equal".
I will provide expert guidance for you to facilitate a strategic revamp of your online dating profile as well as create a more impressive online presence. You will discover the insider secrets I have learned from working with hundreds of women and dozens of men so you create an interesting and diverse visual selection of photos for online dating profiles as well as make suggested edits so you can create compelling language in the profile bio sections to attract the type of ideal partner, an "equal", that you desire to share experiences with, could envision falling in love with, and foresee the potential to create a true partnership with.
Refine & Enrich contains sixteen (16) hours of 1:1 virtual private coaching over a 4-6 month period. This package includes daily texting support for assistance with communication, date attire, date planning, and implementation of the step-by-step modern courtship plan to build the foundation of a healthy relationship based on mutual respect and trust.
This program’s suggested structure set forth below is an outline for timely topics but it was designed with a more customized approach designed specifically for your coaching goals, focus on specific skills, and ultimately what you desire to create while in the program.
But first, would you prefer a customized approach or are you leaning more toward the structured program “Refine & Enrich”?
The Time To Take Action Is Now If You’re Ready To Find Love
The first step is to book a call with Laura to discuss your relationship goals and whether a customized program would be a good fit or if “Refine & Enrich” is the perfect fit. Let’s connect and discover how we can create an elite coaching partnership together.
The Refine & Enrich Details
THE OUTLINED STRUCTURE BELOW IS DESIGNED TO HELP YOU REACH YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS WITHIN “REFINE & ENRICH”:
REFINING YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE
ENHANCING YOUR IN-PERSON PRESENTATION
ENRICHING YOUR DATING LIFE WITH AN UNDERSTANDING OF MODERN COURTSHIP PRINCIPLES & HOW IMPLEMENTING THESE SKILLS CAN RADICALLY TRANSFORM THE WAY YOU DATE and
HELPING YOU ATTRACT THE IDEAL PARTNER YOU DESIRE TO DRAW CLOSER INTO A RELATIONSHIP, A PARTNER YOU RESPECT AS YOUR "EQUAL" AND CREATE A FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP BUILT TO LAST
Part I: BREAKING FREE OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS, HEALING, AND RESTORING CONFIDENCE
SESSIONS FOR CLEARING OUT OLD BELIEFS FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, IDENTIFY BAGGAGE FROM OLD RELATIONSHIPS TO SET FREE, CREATING SPACE FOR TRUST TO GROW, IDENTIFYING DATING PATTERNS THAT ARE KEEPING YOU SINGLE AND BLOCKING YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESIRE, AND CREATING NEW BELIEFS OF HOW DESERVING YOU ARE OF AN AMAZING PARTNER TO SHARE LIFE (AND LOVE).
Part II: CREATING A PLAN FOR SUCCESSFUL DATING & HOW TO MEET OTHER SINGLES
SESSIONS FOCUSED ON STRATEGIC PLANNING FOR ATTRACTING THE TYPE OF IDEAL PARTNER YOU DESIRE BY FOCUSING ON BOTH ONLINE DATING & ORGANIC OPPORTUNITIES TO MEET SINGLES WHILE OUT SOCIALLY; A STYLE SESSION & ATTIRE SUGGESTIONS FOR DATES & SOCIAL EVENTS; AND INSIGHTS FROM THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP SO YOU TO STAND OUT & GET NOTICED BY YOUR IDEAL PARTNER ONLINE & IN REAL LIFE SETTINGS.
Part III: SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR ONLINE DATING SUCCESS & HOW TO KEEP A WOMAN INTRIGUED
SESSIONS DEDICATED TO THE ONLINE DATING PROFILE RELAUNCH BASED ON CHANGES MADE TO YOUR PROFILE BY USING LAURA'S SIGNATURE STRATEGY TEMPLATE FOR CREATING A HIGH-CONVERTING ONLINE DATING PROFILE; "ROLE-PLAY" OF ONLINE CHATS TO TEACH YOU HOW TO EFFECTIVELY CONVERT CONVERSATIONS INTO MEETING IN REAL LIFE; A COPY OF LAURA'S SIGNATURE TEMPLATES FOR OPTIMIZING ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO MAXIMIZE MATCHES & A COPY OF THE CONVERSATION PLAYBOOK FOR SMALL TALK (FOR MEN) DELIVERED TO ENHANCE BOTH YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE AS WELL AS PROVIDE YOU WITH STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE ON WHAT SPECIFIC INFORMATION TO GATHER (AND THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND EACH QUESTION) TO PLAN AN IMPRESSIVE & MEMORABLE DATE.
Part IV: THE FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY OF DATING & UNDERSTANDING WHAT WOMEN SAY AND WHY
SESSIONS FOR TARGETED COURTSHIP COACHING FROM THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP PERSPECTIVE TO ASSIST YOU IN UNDERSTANDING THE IMPORTANCE OF PLANNING AN IMPRESSIVE DATE, THE ESSENTIAL FIRST STEPS IN CREATING THE FOUNDATIONS OF A LASTING RELATIONSHIP, THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION IN DATING, INSIGHTS INTO THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP SO YOU CAN ATTRACT THE IDEAL PARTNER YOU DEEPLY DESIRE IN YOUR LIFE, AND THE CRITICAL IMPORTANCE OF UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER'S LOVE LANGUAGE, CORE PERSONALITY TRAITS, & EMOTIONAL NEEDS IN CREATING A SOLID FOUNDATION FOR A RELATIONSHIP; WE WILL FOCUS ON REVIEWING THE KEY PRINCIPLES OF TRADITIONAL COURTSHIP SO YOU STAND OUT, GET NOTICED, AND ATTRACT THE IDEAL PARTNER YOU RESPECT AS YOUR "EQUAL", SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS THE DEMANDS OF A SUCCESSFUL CAREER.
Part V: HOW TO DATE WITH INTENTION TO CREATE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP
SESSIONS TO DISCUSS THE FIVE CORE STEPS TO CREATING A TRUE PARTNERSHIP:
1. CONNECTION- CREATING A REAL CONNECTION & INITIATING COMMUNICATION WITH CONFIDENCE
2. CONVERSION- GETTING A YES TO A REAL DATE
3. COMMUNICATION- HOW TO COMMUNICATE TO KEEP YOUR IDEAL PARTNER'S INTEREST PEAKED & HOW TO CONNECT ON A DEEPER LEVEL WITH YOUR IDEAL PARTNER TO MOVE YOU CLOSER TO A RELATIONSHIP
4. COURTSHIP- RELATIONSHIP-MINDED DATING WITH INTENTION TO MEET YOUR IDEAL PARTNER AND BUILD CHEMISTRY AS WELL AS CONNECTION
5. COMMITMENT- CREATING A STRONG FOUNDATION FOR A FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP
PLUS REVIEWING THE PERFORMANCE OF THE ONLINE PROFILE; DISCUSSING DATING DEBRIEFS OF DATES YOU'VE BEEN ON SINCE JOINING THE PROGRAM; REVIEWING THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION WITH AN IDEAL PARTNER; UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER'S INTENTIONS AND INITIATING VERY REAL & RELEVANT CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE STATUS OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO HANDLE WHATEVER INFORMATION YOU RECEIVE FROM YOUR PARTNER.
Part VI: HOW TO KEEP A WOMAN INTERESTED AND INVESTED IN YOU
FOCUS ON HOW TO REIGNITE A YOUR IDEAL PARTNER'S ATTENTION WHEN IT SEEMS YOUR PARTNER HAS DRIFTED AWAY AND WHEN TO KNOW WHEN TO CLOSE THE CHAPTER TO MOVE FORWARD
CELEBRATION OF HOW FAR YOU'VE COME IN THE PROGRAM, FOCUS ON SUSTAINING A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP, HOW TO SHOW APPRECIATION TO DRAW YOUR PARTNER IN CLOSER, AND HOW TO KEEP YOUR CONFIDENCE ELEVATED AS YOU MOVE CLOSER TO ACHIEVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS.
HOW TO HAVE HARD CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE FUTURE OF A RELATIONSHIP AND IT’S GROWTH
Would you prefer a customized approach or are you leaning more toward the structured program “Refine & Enrich”?
The Time To Take Action Is Now If You’re Ready To Find Love
The first step is to book a call with Laura to discuss your relationship goals and whether a customized program would be a good fit or if “Refine & Enrich” is the perfect fit. Let’s connect and discover how we can create an elite coaching partnership together.
This program’s suggested structure set forth below is an outline for timely topics yet it was designed specifically to be customized to be the best fit your coaching goals, specific skills, dating success mindset, and ultimately what you desire to create while in the program.
Part I: BREAKING FREE OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS, HEALING, AND RESTORING CONFIDENCE
SESSIONS FOR CLEARING OUT OLD BELIEFS FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, IDENTIFY BAGGAGE FROM OLD RELATIONSHIPS TO SET FREE, CREATING SPACE FOR TRUST TO GROW, IDENTIFYING DATING PATTERNS THAT ARE KEEPING YOU SINGLE AND BLOCKING YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESIRE, AND CREATING NEW BELIEFS OF HOW DESERVING YOU ARE OF AN AMAZING PARTNER TO SHARE LIFE (AND LOVE).
Part II: CREATING A PLAN FOR SUCCESSFUL DATING & HOW TO MEET OTHER SINGLES
SESSIONS FOCUSED ON STRATEGIC PLANNING FOR ATTRACTING THE TYPE OF IDEAL PARTNER YOU DESIRE BY FOCUSING ON BOTH ONLINE DATING & ORGANIC OPPORTUNITIES TO MEET SINGLES WHILE OUT SOCIALLY; A STYLE SESSION & ATTIRE SUGGESTIONS FOR DATES & SOCIAL EVENTS; AND INSIGHTS FROM THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP SO YOU TO STAND OUT & GET NOTICED BY YOUR IDEAL PARTNER ONLINE & IN REAL LIFE SETTINGS.
Part III: SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR ONLINE DATING SUCCESS & HOW TO KEEP A WOMAN INTRIGUED
SESSIONS DEDICATED TO THE ONLINE DATING PROFILE RELAUNCH BASED ON CHANGES MADE TO YOUR PROFILE BY USING LAURA'S SIGNATURE STRATEGY TEMPLATE FOR CREATING A HIGH-CONVERTING ONLINE DATING PROFILE; "ROLE-PLAY" OF ONLINE CHATS TO TEACH YOU HOW TO EFFECTIVELY CONVERT CONVERSATIONS INTO MEETING IN REAL LIFE; A COPY OF LAURA'S SIGNATURE TEMPLATES FOR OPTIMIZING ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO MAXIMIZE MATCHES & A COPY OF THE CONVERSATION PLAYBOOK FOR SMALL TALK (FOR MEN) DELIVERED TO ENHANCE BOTH YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE AS WELL AS PROVIDE YOU WITH STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE ON WHAT SPECIFIC INFORMATION TO GATHER (AND THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND EACH QUESTION) TO PLAN AN IMPRESSIVE & MEMORABLE DATE.
Part IV: THE FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY OF DATING & UNDERSTANDING WHAT WOMEN SAY AND WHY
SESSIONS FOR TARGETED COURTSHIP COACHING FROM THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP PERSPECTIVE TO ASSIST YOU IN UNDERSTANDING THE IMPORTANCE OF PLANNING AN IMPRESSIVE DATE, THE ESSENTIAL FIRST STEPS IN CREATING THE FOUNDATIONS OF A LASTING RELATIONSHIP, THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION IN DATING, INSIGHTS INTO THE PSYCHOLOGY OF COURTSHIP SO YOU CAN ATTRACT THE IDEAL PARTNER YOU DEEPLY DESIRE IN YOUR LIFE, AND THE CRITICAL IMPORTANCE OF UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER'S LOVE LANGUAGE, CORE PERSONALITY TRAITS, & EMOTIONAL NEEDS IN CREATING A SOLID FOUNDATION FOR A RELATIONSHIP; WE WILL FOCUS ON REVIEWING THE KEY PRINCIPLES OF TRADITIONAL COURTSHIP SO YOU STAND OUT, GET NOTICED, AND ATTRACT THE IDEAL PARTNER YOU RESPECT AS YOUR "EQUAL", SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS THE DEMANDS OF A SUCCESSFUL CAREER.
Part V: HOW TO DATE WITH INTENTION TO CREATE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP
SESSIONS TO DISCUSS THE FIVE CORE STEPS TO CREATING A TRUE PARTNERSHIP:
1. CONNECTION- CREATING A REAL CONNECTION & INITIATING COMMUNICATION WITH CONFIDENCE
2. CONVERSION- GETTING A YES TO A REAL DATE
3. COMMUNICATION- HOW TO COMMUNICATE TO KEEP YOUR IDEAL PARTNER'S INTEREST PEAKED & HOW TO CONNECT ON A DEEPER LEVEL WITH YOUR IDEAL PARTNER TO MOVE YOU CLOSER TO A RELATIONSHIP
4. COURTSHIP- RELATIONSHIP-MINDED DATING WITH INTENTION TO MEET YOUR IDEAL PARTNER AND BUILD CHEMISTRY AS WELL AS CONNECTION
5. COMMITMENT- CREATING A STRONG FOUNDATION FOR A FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP
PLUS REVIEWING THE PERFORMANCE OF THE ONLINE PROFILE; DISCUSSING DATING DEBRIEFS OF DATES YOU'VE BEEN ON SINCE JOINING THE PROGRAM; REVIEWING THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION WITH AN IDEAL PARTNER; UNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER'S INTENTIONS AND INITIATING VERY REAL & RELEVANT CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE STATUS OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO HANDLE WHATEVER INFORMATION YOU RECEIVE FROM YOUR PARTNER.
Part VI: HOW TO KEEP A WOMAN INTERESTED AND INVESTED IN YOU
FOCUS ON HOW TO REIGNITE A YOUR IDEAL PARTNER'S ATTENTION WHEN IT SEEMS YOUR PARTNER HAS DRIFTED AWAY AND WHEN TO KNOW WHEN TO CLOSE THE CHAPTER TO MOVE FORWARD
CELEBRATION OF HOW FAR YOU'VE COME IN THE PROGRAM, FOCUS ON SUSTAINING A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP, HOW TO SHOW APPRECIATION TO DRAW YOUR PARTNER IN CLOSER, AND HOW TO KEEP YOUR CONFIDENCE ELEVATED AS YOU MOVE CLOSER TO ACHIEVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS.
HOW TO HAVE HARD CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE FUTURE OF A RELATIONSHIP AND IT’S GROWTH